Can an ex-husband collect on an ex-wife's Social Security?

Asked by: Ms. Libbie Denesik  |  Last update: May 29, 2026
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Yes, an ex-husband can collect on an ex-wife's Social Security record if the marriage lasted at least 10 years, he is currently unmarried, and is at least age 62. The ex-wife must be eligible for benefits, though she does not need to be receiving them yet for him to claim. The benefit can be up to 50% of her full retirement amount.

What is the Social Security spousal benefits loophole?

The Social Security spousal benefits loophole, primarily the "File and Suspend" and "Restricted Application" strategies, allowed a higher-earning spouse to delay their own benefits (earning delayed retirement credits) while the lower-earning spouse collected a spousal benefit based on the higher earner's record; however, a 2015 law closed these loopholes for most new applicants, meaning if one spouse claims spousal benefits, their own benefits are also considered claimed, and benefits can't be suspended to let spousal benefits accrue. A separate, less-known exception allows a spouse caring for a disabled adult child (under 22) to receive benefits even if they haven't reached retirement age, as noted by Special Needs Answers.

What are the rules for collecting your spouse's Social Security?

To collect your spouse's Social Security, you generally must be at least 62 (or any age caring for a child under 16/disabled), married at least one year, and your spouse must be receiving their own benefits; you'll get the higher of your own benefit or up to 50% of your spouse's benefit, with reduced amounts for claiming early, but you can't get both or combine them. Divorced spouses have similar rules but must have been married at least 10 years and be unmarried.
 

How do I know if my ex-wife is collecting my Social Security?

Just call 800-772-1213 and ask them if anyone is receiving benefits through your social security number. They can disclose who is receiving, what type of benefit, and when it started.

Can a divorced man collect his ex-wife's Social Security?

If you are divorced and your marriage lasted at least 10 years, you may be able to get benefits on your former spouse's record and your former spouse may be able to get benefits on your record. For more information go to the Benefits For Your Divorced Spouse page.

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What percentage of Social Security does an ex-wife get?

The maximum ex-spousal benefit is up to 50% of the higher earner's benefit and capped at their full retirement age (FRA) amount, also known as the Primary Insurance Amount or PIA. Most will get a higher benefit based on their own record, rather than an ex-spouse's.

Can an ex-spouse collect my Social Security if they remarry?

If you are divorced, you may qualify for Social Security benefits based on the earnings record of your ex-spouse, even if they have remarried or passed away. There are two types of benefits potentially available to you: spousal benefits and survivor benefits.

Who gets my Social Security, my wife or ex-wife?

you're eligible for some of your ex's Social Security

That means most divorced women collect their own Social Security while the ex is alive, but can apply for higher widow's rates when he dies.

How to find out ex spouse Social Security benefit?

Additionally, if you were married for at least 10 years and haven't remarried, you may be eligible for benefits based on your ex-spouse's earnings. In this case, you can contact the Social Security Administration to request an estimate of these potential benefits.

What is the new law for Social Security spousal benefits?

The biggest recent change is the Social Security Fairness Act (SSFA) of 2023, effective January 2024, which eliminated the Windfall Elimination Provision (WEP) and Government Pension Offset (GPO), meaning your spouse's or survivor's benefits won't be reduced by your non-Social Security government pension anymore, making it much fairer. Also, the "file and suspend" strategy for spousal benefits ended for most, but the core rules remain: you get the higher of your own or your spousal benefit (up to 50% of your partner's), and you can generally switch from spousal to your own higher retirement benefit at full retirement age. 

How long do you have to be married to a man to get his Social Security?

Generally, you must be married for one year before you can get spouse's benefits. However, if you are the parent of your spouse's child, the one-year rule does not apply.

What form do I need to apply for ex spouse Social Security benefits?

Form SSA-2 | Information You Need to Apply for Spouse's or Divorced Spouse's Benefits. You can apply: Online, if you are within 3 months of age 62 or older, or. By calling our national toll-free service at 1-800-772-1213 (TTY 1-800-325-0778) or visiting your local Social Security office.

How do you get the $16728 Social Security bonus?

Essential Requirements: How do I qualify for the $16728 Social Security bonus? To qualify for this bonus, you must meet specific criteria: Age Requirements: You must be between your full retirement age and 70 years old. Full retirement age varies by birth year – typically 66-67 for current retirees.

Can I stop my ex-wife from getting my Social Security after?

In your divorce agreement you may have given up the right to his retirement account from his work, but you can never give up the right to draw Social Security. Remember, drawing a Spousal benefit won't reduce the amount your ex spouse can get! It doesn't hurt your ex or his current spouse at all.

Can a divorced woman get her ex-husband's Social Security?

Yes, a divorced wife can get her ex-husband's Social Security benefits if their marriage lasted at least 10 years, she is unmarried, is at least 62, and her ex-spouse is eligible for benefits, with payments not reducing the ex-spouse's or their current spouse's benefits. Benefits are paid on the ex-spouse's record, up to half their benefit, and the ex-spouse's remarriage doesn't affect eligibility.

What is an ex-wife entitled to after divorce?

In California, a wife is entitled to various assets during a divorce, including community property, spousal support, and potential child support if applicable.

How many years married to collect ex-spouse Social Security?

To get benefits on an ex-spouse's Social Security record, you must have been married for at least 10 years, be currently unmarried, be at least 62 (or 50 with a disability), and your ex-spouse must be eligible for Social Security benefits, with benefits paid on your own record being less than what you'd get on theirs. You must also generally be divorced for at least two years, unless your ex is already collecting benefits. 

Can a man draw Social Security from his ex-wife?

If you're getting Social Security retirement benefits, some members of your family may also qualify to receive benefits on your record. If they qualify, your ex-spouse, spouse, or child may receive a monthly payment of up to one-half of your retirement benefit amount.

What disqualifies you from Social Security retirement?

Not all U.S. workers qualify for Social Security retirement benefits. You can't collect Social Security in retirement if you haven't worked enough to accrue 40 credits, which takes approximately 10 years. Certain types of government workers may not be eligible, including some railroad employees.

Can two ex-wives collect ex-husband's Social Security?

And it is possible for multiple ex-spouses of a marriage to the same person to qualify for benefits from those unions, if each marriage lasted at least 10 years. But each ex-spouse can only qualify for one benefit payment – either their own earned SS benefit, or their benefit as an ex-spouse.

How much does a divorced spouse get from Social Security?

A divorced spouse can receive up to 50% of their ex-spouse's full Social Security retirement benefit, provided the marriage lasted at least 10 years, they are unmarried, and they are at least 62, with the full 50% only available if they claim at their own Full Retirement Age (FRA); claiming earlier (as early as 62) results in a permanently reduced benefit, starting at around 32.5%. The benefit doesn't affect the ex-spouse's own payment and is paid on top of any benefit the divorced spouse earns on their own record, up to a combined total.