Are you responsible for someone's debt if you live with them?

Asked by: Amaya Daugherty DVM  |  Last update: May 9, 2025
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If your spouse accumulated debt before marriage, and you didn't cosign, co-borrow or become a joint account holder, those don't become shared responsibilities after the wedding. It stays their personal debt and sole responsibility, even if you live in a community property state.

Am I responsible for my dad's debt?

Debt Responsibility: Generally, you are not personally responsible for your parents' debts unless you were a co-signer or joint account holder. When someone dies, their debts are typically settled from their estate (the assets they left behind).

Do you inherit your spouse's debt?

There is no inherited debt. Family members are not liable for the debt of a deceased family member but both spouses are equally liable for debt incurred during the marriage so that is their debt (it is not inherited).

Are domestic partners liable for debt?

You could be responsible for any debts incurred by your domestic partner from the date you first registered as domestic partners with the State of California.

Can you be responsible for someone else's debt?

Generally speaking, debt can't usually be transferred to another person. If you're not named on the credit agreement and you didn't sign it, or put your name down as a guarantor, then in most cases, the debt can't be transferred to you.

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Am I liable for my boyfriends debt?

In general, creditors can't come after you, but your jointly held assets could be at risk. Once you tie the knot, in certain states, you could be held responsible for any debts your spouse incurs, even if you're not on the loan. Since state laws vary, you may want to check with a local lawyer if you're concerned.

Can I be held liable for my adult child's debt?

Generally, family members are not responsible for debts incurred by other family members. So, for example, you would not be responsible for the debts incurred by your parents or adult children.

Are unmarried couples responsible for each other's debt?

Like credit, debt is also tied to your individual credit history. So, whether you're married or unmarried, you aren't automatically responsible for your partner's debts. Additionally, any bankruptcies that you or your partner experienced in the past will generally not impact the other person's credit reports or scores.

What happens if you break up with a domestic partner?

The domestic partnership will terminate automatically six months after the date the Notice of Termination of Domestic Partnership is filed with the California Secretary of State, as long as neither partner revokes (cancels) the termination before the end of the six-month period.

Am I legally responsible for my spouse's debt?

Additional Rules for Community Property States

In community property states, as in common law states, you're on the hook for any debts in your name or that you cosign for. Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin are community property states.

How do I protect myself from my husband's debt?

You can protect yourself from your spouse's debt by signing a prenuptial agreement before you get married and avoid taking out joint credit. It's especially important to protect equity in your home during a divorce to ensure you get your fair share, since this is likely the largest asset you have.

When my husband dies am I responsible for his debt?

You are generally not responsible for someone else's debt. When someone dies with an unpaid debt, if the debt needs to be paid, it should be paid from any money or property they left behind according to state law. This is called their estate.

Can you sue your spouse for not paying bills?

This means that, generally, your spouse is not liable for your debts unless they co-signed the debt or it's a joint account. It's important to note that even in common law states, certain types of joint household debts (such as medical expenses in some states) may be treated differently.

Why shouldn't you always tell your bank when someone dies?

If you contact the bank before consulting an attorney, you risk account freezes, which could severely delay auto-payments and direct deposits and most importantly mortgage payments. You should call Social Security right away to tell them about the death of your loved one.

Do I have to pay my deceased mother's credit card debt?

When a loved one passes away, you'll have a lot to take care of, including their finances. It's important to remember that credit card debt does not automatically go away when someone dies. It must be paid by the estate or the co-signers on the account.

What happens if you live with someone and they pass away?

What your partner would receive in the event of your death depends on how you own your property. If your home is owned as beneficial joint tenants, it will automatically pass to the surviving partner on death, regardless of whether you have a will (and regardless of whether that is what you would want).

What happens if you split up and are not married?

Unmarried couples do not go through divorce like married couples do if they split. As long as unmarried partners can agree on how to divvy up any assets, there's generally no need for lawyers or courts.

Does domestic partner mean you live together?

The domestic partnership is a legal relationship between two people of the same or opposite sex who live together and share a domestic life, but are not married or joined by a civil union nor are blood relatives.

Can my girlfriend take half my stuff?

When they get divorced, they split all property 50/50. Unmarried couples cannot take advantage of these 50/50 “community property” laws when they break up and instead must follow a different set of rules to decide who gets the house, cars, and other assets after a breakup.

In what states is cohabitation illegal?

As of December 2023, cohabitation of unmarried couples remains illegal in two states (Mississippi and North Carolina), while as of 2023 fornication remains illegal in two states (Georgia and South Carolina).

Can I be held responsible for my boyfriend's debt?

In general, spouses are not responsible for each other's debts. However, there are certain situations where a spouse may become liable for their partner's debt. This occurs when the spouse willingly agrees to be personally responsible for the debt, such as by co-signing a loan or jointly opening a credit account.

What is it called when you live with someone but are not married?

What is cohabitation? Living together with someone is also sometimes called 'cohabitation'. A cohabiting couple is a couple that lives together in an intimate and committed relationship, who are not married to each other and not in a civil partnership. Cohabiting couples can be opposite-sex or same-sex.

Which states have filial responsibility laws?

The states that have such laws on the books are Alaska, Arkansas, California, Connecticut, Delaware, Georgia, Idaho, Indiana, Iowa, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maryland, Massachusetts, Mississippi, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Dakota, ...

Can you refuse to pay your parents debt?

This is one of the duties that you have, and debts often need to be paid before the remaining assets can be passed on to the beneficiaries. But debt is not inherited like assets are, so you and the other beneficiaries do not have to pay personally.

Are you responsible for your spouse's debt?

Most states use common law (also known as equitable distribution), which dictates that married couples don't automatically share personal property legally. In other words, you aren't responsible for your spouse's debt unless you took it out together as a joint account, or you cosigned on it.