How does Social Security work for ex spouses?

Asked by: Dr. Laron Dickinson PhD  |  Last update: August 29, 2026
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Social Security for ex-spouses allows you to claim benefits on an ex-partner's record if your marriage lasted at least 10 years, you're unmarried, and you're 62+, receiving up to 50% of their full retirement age benefit (or more if you wait) without affecting their payment, with options for higher benefits on your own record or as a survivor if they pass away.

What are the rules for ex-spouse Social Security?

Social Security offers benefits for divorced spouses if you were married 10+ years, are unmarried, at least 62, and your ex is eligible for benefits (even if not yet claiming); you'll get up to half your ex's amount at your full retirement age, but only if it's more than your own benefit, and you can apply earlier for a reduced amount. Your ex-spouse's remarriage doesn't affect your eligibility, and you don't need their permission to apply.

How much of my ex-husband's Social Security will I get?

You can get up to 50% of your ex-husband's full retirement benefit as a divorced spouse if you wait until your own Full Retirement Age (FRA) to claim, but you can start as early as age 62 for a reduced amount (around 32.5% if you claim at 62). The benefit is based on his work record and won't affect his benefit or his new spouse's, and you'll get a higher amount (up to 100%) if he passes away. 

Does my ex-wife get any of my Social Security?

Yes, your ex-wife can get Social Security benefits on your record if your marriage lasted at least 10 years, she is currently unmarried, is at least 62 (or 50 with a disability or caring for your child under 16/disabled), and you are eligible for benefits. The benefits she receives (up to 50% of your primary benefit) do not reduce your payments or your current spouse's, and divorce decree clauses relinquishing this right are not enforced by the SSA.

What is the Social Security spousal benefits loophole?

The Social Security spousal benefits loophole, primarily the "File and Suspend" and "Restricted Application" strategies, allowed a higher-earning spouse to delay their own benefits (earning delayed retirement credits) while the lower-earning spouse collected a spousal benefit based on the higher earner's record; however, a 2015 law closed these loopholes for most new applicants, meaning if one spouse claims spousal benefits, their own benefits are also considered claimed, and benefits can't be suspended to let spousal benefits accrue. A separate, less-known exception allows a spouse caring for a disabled adult child (under 22) to receive benefits even if they haven't reached retirement age, as noted by Special Needs Answers.

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Why do I only get half of my ex-husband's Social Security?

Social Security benefits for a divorced spouse are calculated based on the ex-spouse's earnings record or their own earnings record, depending on which one is higher. You're entitled to half of your ex's benefits if you start collecting once you reach your full retirement age (FRA).

How soon can I collect on my ex-husband's Social Security?

You can start collecting benefits on your ex-husband's Social Security record as early as age 62, provided your marriage lasted at least 10 years, you are unmarried, and he is eligible for benefits. To get the maximum benefit (up to 50% of his full retirement amount), you should wait until your own full retirement age (FRA); claiming early at 62 results in a permanently reduced amount, similar to claiming your own benefit early. 

Can two ex-wives collect Social Security from one husband?

Can two wives collect Social Security from one husband? Yes, if both marriages meet eligibility rules. A current spouse and an ex-spouse (if married at least 10 years and not remarried before age 60) can both receive Social Security benefits based on the same husband's work record.

Can I get my ex-husband's Social Security if he's alive?

you're eligible for some of your ex's Social Security

That means most divorced women collect their own Social Security while the ex is alive, but can apply for higher widow's rates when he dies.

What is the new Social Security spousal rule?

The "new" Social Security spousal rule is actually the end of a strategic loophole from 2016, making it impossible for most people to "file and suspend" or "restricted application" to get spousal benefits while delaying their own higher retirement benefit; instead, deemed filing means you apply for both at once and get the higher amount, but you can't earn delayed credits on your own benefit while collecting spousal benefits. A separate 2025 law (SSFA) also eliminated the Government Pension Offset (GPO) for many public servants, preventing their spouse's or survivor's benefits from being reduced by their non-covered government pension.

Who gets Social Security, new wife or ex-wife?

Divorced spouses are entitled to the greater of their own benefit or the ex-spouse's benefit. The maximum ex-spousal benefit is up to 50% of the higher earner's benefit and capped at their full retirement age (FRA) amount, also known as the Primary Insurance Amount or PIA.

How long does a woman have to be married to get her husband's Social Security?

Qualifying spouse beneficiaries must be married to the retiring spouse for at least one continuous year prior to applying for benefits, with certain exceptions. Yes, up to 50 percent of spouse's PIA if spouse is still living.

Can you collect both spousal benefits and your own Social Security?

Yes, both you and your spouse can collect Social Security benefits, either on your own earnings records if you've both worked, or a spouse can claim a spousal benefit on the other's record, usually up to 50% of the primary earner's benefit, with the Social Security Administration (SSA) always paying the higher of the two amounts. You each get your own earned benefit if it's higher, or a combination/spousal benefit if that's greater, ensuring you get the maximum possible from your combined records.

What are ex-wives entitled to?

After divorce, a woman is generally entitled to a fair share of marital assets (house, savings, retirement) and debts, potential spousal support (alimony) to meet needs or maintain lifestyle, and rights concerning child custody, visitation, and support if children are involved, with specifics depending on state law and individual circumstances like income, length of marriage, and financial needs, aiming for an equitable financial start for both parties. 

Can a divorced woman get her ex-husband's Social Security?

Yes, a divorced wife can get her ex-husband's Social Security benefits if their marriage lasted at least 10 years, she is unmarried, is at least 62, and her ex-spouse is eligible for benefits, with payments not reducing the ex-spouse's or their current spouse's benefits. Benefits are paid on the ex-spouse's record, up to half their benefit, and the ex-spouse's remarriage doesn't affect eligibility.

Can I take my ex-husband's Social Security instead of mine?

You are eligible to receive one-half (50%) of your ex-spouse's retirement benefit. If your ex-spouse should die before you, you can receive their full retirement benefit. The benefit does not include any delayed retirement credits your ex-spouse may receive.

What paperwork do I need to collect my ex-husband's Social Security?

W-2 forms(s) and/or self-employment tax returns for last year. Final divorce decree, if applying as a divorced spouse; and. Marriage certificate.