Should a family member be a trustee?

Asked by: Elmo Runolfsson  |  Last update: August 24, 2025
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While in some situations it is appropriate for a sibling or other family member to serve as trustee, in many cases, particularly with a larger trust, naming a family member is not the best decision, for several reasons. First, clients fail to appreciate the amount of work involved in being a good trustee.

Why a beneficiary should not be trustee?

Naming the same person as trustee and beneficiary can be problematic. Not only can it lead to a trustee and beneficiary conflict of interest, but it can make it difficult for the trustee to uphold their duty to treat all beneficiaries equally.

Who is the best person to be a trustee?

Experience and Knowledge. Another key consideration is whether the individual or entity is qualified to act as trustee. If the trust has substantial assets, an individual with experience managing significant assets or with a background in finance or investments may be better suited to the role of trustee.

Is there any downside to being a trustee?

Serving as an executor or trustee is a significant responsibility that requires careful consideration. While there are benefits, such as personal satisfaction and potential compensation, there are also drawbacks, including time commitment, emotional strain, and potential legal liability.

Who Cannot act as a trustee?

Anyone 16 and over (18 for an Unincorporated Association or Charitable Trust) who is not 'disqualified' can be a Trustee. The reasons for disqualification were set down by the Charities Act 2011, and were designed to prevent people convicted of financial crimes, or who made serious financial errors, becoming trustees.

Can a Family Member Serve as a Trustee?

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Can a trustee be a family member?

A trustee can be an individual, such as a family member, friend, or trusted advisor (e.g., lawyer or accountant) or an institution, such as a bank or trust company.

Who is disqualified from being a trustee?

A A Trustee is disqualified 'as Trustee' upon his death, loss of his legal competence, removal from trusteeship, liquidation, rescinding his licence or declaring his bankruptcy. The Trust shall then be transferred to the other Trustees in case of multiple Trustees, unless the Trust Instrument provides otherwise.

Can a trustee take all the money?

Ultimately, trustees can only withdraw money from a trust account for specific expenses within certain limitations. Their duties require them to comply with the grantor's wishes. If they breach their fiduciary duties, they will be removed as the trustee and face a surcharge for compensatory damages.

Who holds the real power in a trust, the trustee or the beneficiary?

This is a fundamental concept of trust law: the separation of legal and equitable title. In other words, while the trustee has the legal authority to manage and control the assets, they do so not for their own benefit, but for the beneficiaries.

What makes a bad trustee?

Common Breaches of Trustee Duties in California. Too often, trustees breach their duties. Some of the most common ways they do this include breaches of trust, funds misappropriation, poor management, fraudulent acts, failure to act, and engagement with a competitor.

Can a beneficiary be a trustee?

There is little question but that a beneficiary may serve as the sole trustee of a trust established by a third person for his or her own benefit and not be treated as the owner of the trust assets for estate tax purposes as long as the distribution discretion is limited by an ascertainable standard.

Can I name myself as a trustee?

From a legal standpoint, you can appoint yourself as the Trustee of any trust you create, whether it is a revocable or irrevocable trust. Appointing yourself as the Trustee of an irrevocable trust in which you are also the Settlor, however, would almost always defeat the purpose of making the trust irrevocable.

Should siblings be co-trustees?

On the surface, it may seem like the best way to protect their legacy is to keep trust management within the family. However, this plan may backfire due to practicality or family dynamics. Appointing two or more siblings as co-trustees could create logistical problems.

What is the biggest mistake parents make when setting up a trust fund?

Selecting the wrong trustee is easily the biggest blunder parents can make when setting up a trust fund. As estate planning attorneys, we've seen first-hand how this critical error undermines so many parents' good intentions.

What cannot a trustee do?

A trustee must abide by the trust document and the California Probate Code. They are prohibited from using trust assets for personal gain and must act in the best interest of the beneficiaries. Trust assets are meant for the benefit of the trust beneficiaries and not for the personal use of the trustee.

Can a trustee ignore a beneficiary?

While trustees may temporarily be able to delay trust distributions if a valid reason exists for them doing so, they are rarely entitled to hold trust assets indefinitely or refuse beneficiaries the gifts they were left through the trust.

What are the risks of being a trustee?

Trustees are personally liable for all decisions they take in that capacity, and their liability is not automatically limited to the value of the trust fund. Typically, the trust deed will limit trustees' liability in some way and these clauses should be checked, as well as any existing trustee insurance.

At what net worth do I need a trust?

Many advisors and attorneys recommend a $100K minimum net worth for a living trust. However, there are other factors to consider depending on your personal situation. What is your age, marital status, and earning potential?

Is being a trustee a big deal?

Being a trustee is also a role that can be quite time consuming, more so than most people assume. Depending on the nature of the estate, being a trustee can require quite a few hours, which can be hard to come by if the trustee also has a full-time job, a family, and/or other obligations.

Can a trustee steal money from a trust?

Under California law, embezzling trust funds or property valued at $950 or less is a misdemeanor offense and is punishable by up to 6 months in county jail. If a trustee embezzles more than $950 from the trust, they can be charged with felony embezzlement, which carries a sentence of up to 3 years in jail.

Can a trustee withdraw money from a bank account?

The short answer is that they can withdraw money as needed to cover legitimate trust expenses. When naming a trustee, it's important to choose an individual or entity, such as a bank or wealth management firm, that you can rely on to abide by their fiduciary duty.

Can a trustee withhold inheritance?

While a trustee may not legally withhold trust assets based on their own discretion, they may withhold assets if the power and discretion is afforded to them by the terms laid out in the trust document.

Who can't be a trustee?

If they have unspent convictions for offences of dishonesty or deception (an offence of dishonesty or deception is one where dishonesty or deception must be proved for someone to be convicted. It doesn't just mean dishonesty or deception was involved in committing the offence).

Can a trustee kick you out?

In general, the steps to this process are: The trustee must send a written notice to the beneficiary to vacate the real property. Under California law, if the beneficiary has been in possession of the property for less than a year, then a 30-day notice is sufficient.

How to disburse money from a trust?

Distribute trust assets outright

The grantor can opt to have the beneficiaries receive trust property directly without any restrictions. The trustee can write the beneficiary a check, give them cash, and transfer real estate by drawing up a new deed or selling the house and giving them the proceeds.