The best way to pay a large sum depends on speed, cost, and destination, with bank wire transfers being ideal for secure bank-to-bank transfers (domestic/international) and specialized services like Wise great for low-cost international payments, while cashier's checks offer bank-guaranteed security for local transactions; for very large sums, contacting a financial advisor or specialist service is recommended over standard apps.
Take advantage of the lifetime gift tax exemption
In addition to the annual limit, the IRS allows you to give larger monetary gifts to family over your lifetime without paying taxes, but only up to a certain amount. This is called the lifetime gift exemption.
Can my parents give me $100,000? Your parents can each give you up to $19,000 in 2025 without triggering a gift tax return. However, any amount that exceeds that will need to be reported to the IRS by your parents and will count against their lifetime limit.
Sending a wire transfer through your bank might be the best way to send a large amount quickly; P2P apps limit how much you can send (generally $1,000 to $10,000 per transfer) and delivery can take multiple days. Bank wire transfers generally are delivered within hours or minutes.
If you receive a gift, you do not need to report it on your taxes. According to the IRS, a gift occurs when you give property (like money) without expecting anything in return. If you gift someone more than the annual gift tax exclusion amount ($17,000 in 2022), the giver must file Form 709 (a gift tax return).
How to transfer money online to friends and family
Wire transfers.
For sending a large amount of money, wire transfers can be a solution. Keep in mind that there's typically a fee for wire transfers. To make a wire transfer, call or visit your bank or a wire transfer company, or make an online transaction with a trusted source.
While CashApp is generally safe to use, resolving issues like fraud or account breaches might take longer, as you'll be relying on CashApp's customer service rather than your bank's. Using Zelle through the bank's mobile app provides a significant advantage in terms of security and support.
The 7 year rule isn't straightforward
For example, if you give your son £10,000 then this is a gift, not income, and they won't be required to pay income tax on it. However, if you die within 7 years of the gift, this is when tax implications do become relevant, in the form of Inheritance Tax.
Yes, you can likely give your daughter $50,000 tax-free by using your annual gift exclusion and lifetime exemption, but you'll need to file Form 709 with the IRS to report the gift exceeding the annual limit ($19,000 in 2024/2025). The $50,000 gift reduces your large lifetime exemption (over $13 million in 2024/2025), meaning you won't pay tax on it unless your total lifetime gifts exceed that huge amount; your daughter never pays gift tax on the money.
Step-Up in Basis for Inherited Assets
One tax advantage of leaving assets after death is the step-up in basis. This provision allows heirs to inherit assets at their fair market value at the time of death, effectively resetting the capital gains tax to zero for any appreciation during the decedent's lifetime.
Can I give my son or daughter £20,000? While you can give your son or daughter a cash gift of £20,000 (or more), there may be tax implications. That's because any money you give that exceeds your £3,000 tax-free gift allowance will be added to the value of your estate and may be subject to inheritance tax when you die.
Yes, you can transfer $50,000 to a family member, but you'll need to report it to the IRS by filing Form 709 because it exceeds the 2026 annual gift tax exclusion of $19,000 per person, though you likely won't owe tax unless your total lifetime gifts surpass the very large lifetime exemption. For large cash transfers, banks also report it to FinCEN, and you might need a formal gift letter for things like a home down payment to prove it's not a loan.
Transaction Speed
ACH transactions typically take one to three business days to settle, as they are processed in batches at specific intervals. In contrast, Zelle offers real-time or near-real-time transfers, making it significantly faster for sending money between U.S. bank accounts.
The Zelle App is Gone. What Does That Mean? As of April 1, 2025, Zelle has officially shut down its standalone app. This decision was driven by the fact that most users already accessed Zelle through their bank or credit union's mobile app.
Some banks avoid Zelle due to high fraud risks from irreversible payments, potential liability issues, high transaction costs for smaller institutions, and lack of control over Zelle's network rules set by larger banks, making it costly and risky compared to cheaper, slower options like ACH, though many are joining due to customer demand.
Here are some of the most secure payment methods available online:
Transferring money between bank accounts is one of the best ways to send and receive large sums in the US and abroad. You can initiate a wire transfer for large domestic or international money transfers — or deposit money into your own account via an ACH transaction.
An ACH transfer is a batch-processed, cost-effective bank transfer often used for payroll, bill payment, and direct deposits. ACH payments typically take 1-3 days to settle. A wire transfer is a faster, individual transaction that moves money between banks, often with higher fees and no option for reversal.
The most common methods for transferring wealth to another person are via gifts, trusts, and wills. A fourth option, Family Limited Partnership, allows family members to buy shares in a family holding company and transfer assets that way, often income tax-free.
While federal law allows individuals to gift up to $19,000 a year (in 2025) without having to pay a gift tax, Medicaid law still treats that gift as a transfer. Any transfer that you make, however innocent, will come under scrutiny.